Holy Relationship Retreat
November 4-8, 2026 — Tulum Mexico (For singles & couples)
"I have done so many retreats, workshops and therapy, but I've never experienced anything as transformative as this." - Jacky
Break through the subconscious blockages that keep you from attracting and building a conscious relationship
This November we are welcoming an intimate group of people to join us for a life-changing retreat in the sacred jungle of Mexico. This inner journey is for the brave ones who are truly willing to go deep within, and release all that is no longer serving them. The ones who are done settling, and who are ready for the Love that wakes them up to their Highest Self.
Whether you are single or in a committed relationship, come alone or with your partner, this retreat is for anyone who is ready to have a conscious and fulfilling relationship with themselves, their Higher Power, or with their (future) partner.
What to Expect
Deep transformational sessions that guide you to the core of the subconscious patterns, limiting beliefs, and suppressed emotions
Voice Liberation sessions that bypass the thinking mind and help you access and release subconscious wounds and blockages that words alone cannot reach. (No singing experience is needed! Voice Liberation is not a singing class—it is one of the most powerful healing modalities using the expression of the voice combined with guided inner work, to release suppressed emotions and blockages and facilitate deep transformation.)
Guidance through our Five Pillars of a Holy Relationship, giving you practical tools and profound insights to build a relationship that is rooted in purpose, emotional safety, true intimacy, trust, and spiritual awakening through joy instead of pain. (This is not a couple’s retreat, and all who feel called are welcome!)
Evening integration sessions, combining gentle releasing practices, integrative yin yoga, sound healing, and meditation to help you integrate whatever insights and healing came up for you during the day.
Morning and evening silence, allowing you to begin and end each day in stillness, reflection, and inner listening.
Spirit-led exercises, all intuitively guided according to what is most helpful for the group in each moment.
A beautiful balance of depth and joy. While this retreat invites you into profound healing, it is equally a celebration of life—with laughter, music, playfulness, movement, heartfelt connection, and the joy that naturally arises as we release all that no longer serves us, and remember the Love we truly are.
Time immersed in nature, surrounded by the lush jungle of Mexico, with space to walk, rest, and reflect.
A Cenote Pool, with natural healing waters to cleanse the body, mind, and soul.
Delicious and organic meals, prepared with love and care for the land.
A safe and loving community, where you'll be deeply supported by us and surrounded by like-minded souls from around the world who, just like you, are ready to go on this transformational healing journey from fear to Love.
Testimonials:
What are our methods and why do they work?
Voice Liberation
Neda Boin has been sharing her transformational Voice Liberation sessions for nearly a decade all around the world, including in maximum security prisons.
The voice truly has the power to bring us straight into the root of whatever wants to be healed. We all knew about the healing power of our own voice when we were little, but most people have forgotten about it and have gone quiet.
In Neda’s sessions you will be musically guided to go straight into the subconscious blockages and suppressed emotions that are ready to be released. No singing experience is needed for this whatsoever, and Voice Liberation is in no way a ‘singing class’.
What does a session look like?
Every session is intuitively channeled and perfectly attuned to the groups need, so no two sessions are the same. What they do have in common, is that there will often be exercises done in pairs, with one person facilitating as the space holder, while the other person does the exercise.
Exercises can come in the form of, for example, forgiving ourselves, forgiving our past, forgiving our parents, releasing anger/shame/guilt/fear, reconnecting with our Higher Power and Inner Voice, letting go of limiting beliefs, healing the inner masculine and feminine energies, healing our inner child, and breaking through unhealthy patterns.
This process often involves an expression in words at first, followed by an expression in sound alone. Sometimes there can also be somatic movement involved. When we let go of words —which still keeps us on the level of the thinking mind— and allow ourselves to express in sound and movement, we unlock a part of our mind where suppressed emotions, unhealed wounds, and stuck patterns can come up to the surface and be released in a way that our cognitive brain cannot accomplish.
Somatic Movement
Allan Carolina has been in the field of bodywork for over ten years. He is a holistic physical therapist, Yin Yoga teacher, and energy healer who uses somatic movement combined with intuitive and shamanic practices to facilitate deep healing.
Through embodied practices he guides people deep within the nervous system, where old blockages and trauma can be released.
Allan truly has the gift to create a safe environment where healing can naturally occur, while feeling deeply held and supported.
“I feel that every person in the world should experience this retreat at least once in their life. It is powerful, transformative and deeply healing. It shifted the way I show up in all of my relationships, and more importantly, how I relate to God, Source, Creator — knowing I am unconditionally loved, supported, and taken care of!”
— StephanieSchedule
Welcome dinner
Opening ceremony
Connecting with our purpose and intention
Day 1 - Purpose
Day 2 - Transparency
Releasing all that no longer serves you
Clearing inner clutter ceremony
True empathy vs false empathy
Learning to listen with Spirit
The power of presence
Magical Cenote water ceremony
Day 3 - Conflict Resolution
Forgiveness ceremony
How to heal the core of any issue you’re faced with
Releasing the past
Healing the inner child
Fire ceremony
Day 4 - Divine Feminine & Masculine
Releasing relationship patterns
Becoming (and attracting) The One
Healing the feminine and masculine wounds within you
Healing chakra movement session
Final evening celebration with music and intuitive movement
Day 5 - Joyful Awakening
Closing ceremony
Letting Love lead the way
Angel Bath Blessing Ceremony
“I finally EXPERIENCED that I am love. That it is really true! You guided me there. Your voice, your music, your silence, your love… You guided me straight into Love. Finally a method that brought me into the love-experience. Finally exercises with little words and thinking. Finally my overworked head got peace. The countless questions I had before didn’t matter any more. The Voice Liberation, the sighing… it all brought me into the Love-experience. My heart is open again. I feel my Self.”
— Hélène
Sample Schedule
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We are silent in the morning up until our first session. This is the time to connect with your intention and open up your mind and heart for what’s to come.
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We will enjoy a delicious and healthy farm-to-table breakfast. Breakfast will be in silence, and can serve as a beautiful opportunity to practice presence and mindful eating.
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The morning sessions will tend to be a bit more intense and will invite you to get into the core of whatever wants to be released.
The sessions can take different forms, and can vary from Voice Liberation exercises in pairs, group work, writing exercises, forgiveness work, and more.
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Enjoy a delicious lunch. Destino Mío has its own organic garden, where most of the food comes from. Our diet will be rich in fresh vegetables and proteins.
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Take a nap at the pool, swim in one of the ancient old cenotes, get a massage or energy healing from Allan, or have a walk through the beautiful garden of Destino Mío.
This is your time to rest and integrate.
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At Destino Mío they don’t just cook, they make little pieces of heaven on a plate! Expect nurturing, healthy and farm-to-table dishes that are prepared with love and care by top gastronomy chefs.
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The evening sessions will be centred around integration and will conclude with a healing yin yoga session.
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Silence is an important way to allow all of the healing work to integrate. Take time to meditate, write, or go to sleep early.
Who We Are
We are Allan and Neda—founders of the Holy Relationship platform.
Through our retreats, workshops, and social media, we guide individuals and couples to attract, build, and sustain a conscious relationship.
We both know from experience how painful and dysfunctional relationships can be. But we also know that with the right tools and shared purpose, a relationship can become one of the most beautiful and powerful classrooms for healing, growth, and spiritual awakening.
Neda Boin is a spiritual teacher and Voice Liberator whose work is rooted in the non-dual teachings of A Course in Miracles. She has guided thousands of people around the world through her Voice Liberation sessions—a powerful method that uses the voice as a tool to access and release deep subconscious blockages.
For many years, Neda dreamed about offering relationship retreats and teach people how to have relationships that serve as a beautiful classroom for growth and spiritual healing.
The only problem was that she had not yet experienced a fully healthy relationship herself...
It wasn’t until she left a dysfunctional long-term relationship, a few years before meeting Allan, that she realised that if she wanted her future to be different from her past, she had work to do.
And so a deep healing journey unfolded where she started unraveling her relationship patterns, forgave her past, healed her heart, and became the love she had always been searching for.
Allan Carolina is a holistic physical therapist, Reiki Master, Yin Yoga teacher, and Kundalini healer with a great passion for guiding men into healthy, conscious masculinity, and supporting women in releasing whatever is blocking them to receive the love they truly deserve.
Allan’s childhood was marked by trauma, yet even at a very young age, he carried the profound awareness that his parents’ actions came from their own unresolved pain.
As he grew older, this awareness deepened into a strong curiosity to explore the depth of his own mind. As a teenager he would spend hours in meditation on his native island of Curaçao, often surrounded by eagles, contemplating life, healing, and truth.
Although he understood on a intellectual level that his parents were innocent and did the best that they could, his body still held the weight of unprocessed trauma he tried to outrun for many years.
It wasn’t until he came to a point in life where he seemingly had everything he thought he wanted, yet still felt a deep emptiness within, that he realized he could no longer escape his past.
What followed was a profound inner journey of healing and forgiveness — one that brought him to his knees in complete surrender to God, and to his purpose to guide men into embodied, healthy masculinity, and supporting women in remembering their inherent worth.
The moment Allan met Neda, he heard an inner whisper from God saying: “That’s her”. He knew he had found his queen, the woman he was meant to share his purpose with.
Not long after they got together, they began receiving the inner guidance to create the Holy Relationship platform—a platform that would serve thousands of people to learn how to use relationships as a pathway to remembering the love we truly are.
The Holy Relationship retreat is born out of the healing journey they both have gone through, and the amazing relationship they have built together after that.
“I never expected so much could shift in just a few days. Through beautiful exercises and loving guidance, I unburdened myself from so much within. Old stories released, new space opened up, and I felt a deeper connection within while feeling grounded and connected to others. Neda and Allan create a healing space that feels safe, honest, raw and joyful. Truly transformative.”
— RosaWhere we’ll stay
Our Retreat Space
Our retreat resort —Casa Arkaana— sits in the jungle of Chemuyil, Quintana Roo, Mexico, 20 minutes north of Tulum. Once you arrive at Casa Arkaana, the outside world stays outside. An extraordinairy place at the edge of the jungle, where the highway disappears into silence and the real Riviera Maya begins.
The temple, a ten-meter octagonal space built in the tradition of ancient Maya vernacular architecture, will be the sacred place where we will have our sessions.
Beneath the floor and within the walls, they’ve placed quartz, amethyst, and rose quartz during construction. Every side is open to the jungle through fine mosquito netting, so the space breathes with you while keeping you fully protected.
Hundreds of ceremonies, breathwork sessions, and somatic practices have been held within these walls and they will deeply support our inner journey to go from fear to Love.
Farm-to-table dining
Every meal is an act of care — colourful, abundant, and prepared with love. Sourced from local producers, seasonal markets, and the land when the seasons allow.
Expect nurturing, healthy and farm-to-table dishes that are prepared with love and care.
Casa Arkana has its own organic garden, where most of the food comes from.
Any dietary restrictions or allergies will be taken into account.
This retreat is alcohol- and drug-free.
Sleeping in the jungle
We will wake up with the song of birds, and go to sleep under a night sky full of stars.
We have three different sleeping options: Ensuite Verandas, Jungle Casitas, and Glamping Tents. More information on that below.
Every structure is bio-climatically designed with cross-ventilation, elevated ceilings, and natural materials that keep the inside cooler than the outside — year-round, day or night.
Rooms will be shared with a maximum of one other person.
Investment - €250 ($285) early bird discount until September 1st!
Payment plans available
"I have spent thousands of dollars in therapy, and none of it got me anywhere close to the release that I got with you." - Kat
Ensuite Veranda with private bathroom, early bird:
Standard package:€1945 ($2227*) ONLY 1 SPOT LEFT FOR SOLO MAN
Jungle Casita with shared bathroom early bird:
Standard package: €1675 ($1917*) ONLY ONE ROOM LEFT (2 singles or 1 couple)
Glamping Tent early bird:
Standard package:€1450 ($1660*)
Standard package includes:
Full retreat experience
1 one-on-one intake call
Accommodation, including bed linen and fresh towels
All breakfast, lunch and dinners as shown on the itinerary
Free fresh infused herbal water, tea, fruits, and snacks
Airport transfer to and from the resort (Nov 4 and Nov 8. Trusted drivers are available at own cost if you want to come earlier or stay longer)
BONUS: Free life-long access to the online Voice Liberation program
BONUS: Free Holy Relationship gift bag
Optional add on: Integration package
For €600 extra ($686) you’ll have everything mentioned above plus:
Private bodywork healing session with Allan during the retreat
Embodied Awakening integration session with Allan after the retreat
One-on-one Voice Liberation session with Neda after the retreat
Costs not included:
Flights
Medical expenses
Any unforeseen accident, injury and/or damage to property
Travel insurance
*An extra 4% processing fee will be charged for people paying with credit card
Ensuite Veranda with private bathroom
Jungle Casita with shared bathroom
Glamping tents with shared bathroom
This is NOT for people who…
Are looking for a luxury vacation rather than a transformational journey
Aren’t willing to look inward and release whatever is no longer serving them
Prefer to learn by listening to lectures, rather than somatic, transformational, and interactive exercises
Want to hold on to grievances and aren’t willing to forgive their past and everyone in it, including themselves
Are satisfied with repeating the same patterns
Are mentally unstable and who will not be able to handle deep inner work without constant 1:1 guidance
Register for an intake call
In order to secure your spot for the retreat, we will do a 20 minute intake call with you to connect and hear about your intention for the retreat.
You’ll also be able to ask any questions you might have for us that you couldn’t find in the FAQ section (see bottom of this page).
Only sign the form if you are ready to commit to joining the retreat. We will be in touch with you shortly after via Whatsapp or email to book an intake call with you.
Frequently Asked Questions
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No, this retreat is open to anyone who feels the inner calling to join. The majority of participants usually come by themselves, but couples are definitely also welcome. If you are in a relationship and would like to come without your partner that is also completely fine!
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Our retreats are specifically designed to get into the core wounds and beliefs that are holding us back. We don’t just talk about healing and analyse problems, we actually do the work that facilitate deep inner healing.
Because of the somatic nature of our methods, we’re able to access subconscious layers of the mind that you’re usually not able to reach.
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Yes, you can! We can discuss this during our intake call.
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No, not per se. Although it is very important that you have an open and willing mind to do the work. This retreat is not a relaxing spa, and the sessions will very likely take you outside of your comfort zone.
If you are currently mentally unstable, you might benefit more from a one-on-one trajectory before feeling grounded and steady enough to participate. If there are any doubts about this, we can discuss it during the intake call. -
There will be a maximum of 18 participants joining this retreat
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November is considered to be the ideal time to travel to this area, as it is much less humid than the summer times. It will still be warm during the day, with temperatures going up to a maximum of 27°C–30°C (81°F–86°F). In the night, it very much cools off to about 18°C – 69°F.
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Yes, you can pay with any currency. The webshop will show euro’s, but your bank will automatically calculate the amount in dollars. To see the current dollar to euro exchange rate, click here.
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We will pick you up from Cancun Airport on the day of the retreat. It is advised to make sure your plane lands anywhere between 9am and 1pm
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If you arrive on the 4th, make sure you arrive between 9am and 1pm.
If you’re leaving right after the retreat, make sure your flight doesn’t leave earlier than 7pm.
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Cancun Airport Mexico
(Tulum Airport is also possible, but often more expensive. We have a free airport service from Cancun)
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This retreat is non refundable. If we can find someone to take your spot, you may use your payment as credit for a following retreat.
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Most international visitors do not need a visa to enter Mexico for tourism. Travelers from certain countries may require a visa unless they already hold a valid U.S., Canadian, Schengen, UK, or Japanese visa. We recommend checking requirements based on your passport.